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Rudeboy’s “Reason With Me” Records 2019 Highest Views On Youtube In Africa Popular Nigerian singer, Rudeboy of the defunct music group, Psquare took to his Instagram to reveal that his 2019 hit single, “Reason With Me” garnered the highest views on Youtube in the outgoing year. Nigerian Artiste Paul Okoye. According to the report by informationng.com, the song which was viewed on Youtube by 40million people is the highest on the continent. The popular singer pointed out that despite not using video vixens showing off nudity, not featuring anyone on the song, it still went far. See his post below:

 ‘Breaking Point’: Reasons upcoming film featuring 2 BBN Naija Stars is tipped for Success Two BBNaija stars, Tobi Bakre and Diane Yashim are some of the popular faces that will feature in the upcoming film, 'Breaking Point'. ‘Breaking Point’ has been tipped for success ahead of its 2020 release in cinema after featuring two BBNaija ex-housemates. The film, which is directed by filmmaker, Xela, is being tipped to be a hit in the cinema after its release in 2020. Featuring BBNaija Double Wahala star, Tobi Bakre and BBNaija Pepper Dem star, Diane Yashim , the Vidi360 Production also stars Tina Mba, Shaffy Bello, Timini, Ninalowo, Fehintola Olukotun, Foluke Daramola, Segun Arinze and MC Lively. Here are the reasons ‘Breaking Point’ has been tipped for success in cinemas 1. The cast One can say the casting team did a fantastic job as every actor picked, suited the roles they were given perfectly which made for a smooth interpretation of the robust characters to be played ...

LOVE THAT WORKS... Love is a mirage without its practical expression. People tend to love because they feel they can without actually having a practical backup for their show of life. Love is not a thing of the mouth but a thing of the "act" based on the action which follows. Sometimes we fall in love and we cannot explain how, many people express their love for their partners but finds it difficult to act it out Though we all tend to be deep in love that we don't even know when we get carried away and still profess the same love to another person due to the attention we get and what we see sometimes. Love is a lifetime commitment and not an ephemeral feeling which is here now and gone tomorrow, so when you say that you love someone, it is more than the thing of the lips but the thing of the heart. Love genuinely with action and not just with the lips, love to add value and not sap value out of the person, love gives and not only takes; give no matter the situati...

HOW CAN YOU LEAVE A MARK IN THE SAND OF TIME? Have you ever weighed your actions in life? Have you ever thought of the changes you can make even with the little you have? Stop whining about your challenges and see what you can make out of your circumstance. You feel like having millions makes you relevant in the society or you think your lack of finance is an hindrance to you touching lives; real changes and impact are felt through the selfless service rendered by an individual without waiting for rewards. Look for a problem to solve and touch lives by doing this, it also helps you to become fulfilled in life, because you have something worth living for, some people are only existing and not living. Always know that the test of your love for your neighbour starts from the kindness you give when you have nothing and not the flamboyant lifestyle you live when you have a lot. A man who cannot give when he has nothing will still not give when he has all. Giving and selfless service...

OUR DIFFERENCES MAKES US UNIQUE... Life has brought to us and will still bring to us persons of different characters and behaviours, people we expect to behave the way we want or the way which pleases us but who have and will fail to do so. Humans are of different made and backgrounds also differs, which makes people behave in different ways. That is the reason why most times some persons hurt you but they don't see it as anything because it is a normal way of life to them, so when we come across individuals whose character differs from ours, learn to study their character and know them for who they are and not for whom you want them to be, through this you can even help to build them in the area of their deficiency. A lot of us have fallen short in the aspect of judging people from afar or by our first encounter with them; it is actually true that first impression lasts longer, but I have found out that most negative first impressions are not even premeditated by the person bu...

SECURITY ON OUR ROADS I am taking a detour from the normal angle of writing today; I want to delve into the happenings in our society as regards economy, politics and security but basically the security personnel and the situation on our roads. You would have asked yourself a question while travelling on our roads, especially when the journey is a bit far. The question would be "how many security agents are we to have on our roads in Nigeria?". At every interval you meet security personnel at checkpoints and the baffling thing is that all of them will request bribe from the drivers. It got to a point where I pitied this drivers die to the amount of money spent on the road just to settle the security on the road. It dawned on me how hard it is for Nigerian commercial drivers when I was travelling from Abuja to Kwara state recently, because the driver paid security personnel at every checkpoint. Note that security checkpoints in Nigeria cannot be numbered, the checkpoints...

ONLY YOU CAN PUSH YOURSELF. I have gotten to a point in life where I see everyone as unique individuals on their own; I see that each and every human being have the capacity and tendency to be who they want to be only if they can push a little further. Let's quickly take a detour and see how many persons have been deceived into believing most of the motivational speakers we have in the world nowadays. Note that I am not saying listening to or following the word of a motivational speaker does not help, but I am just surprised at how everyone have turned to becoming a motivational speaker. You listen to a man who only reads books without having a practical feel of what he is teaching; many people speak to us based on what they read from a book and not what they have experienced. I have seen motivational speakers teaching on how to become financially successful whereas they are not even close to financial success themselves, if the principle have not worked for them, how will it w...

EXPERIENCES TEACHES US Life has given us the opportunity  to meet different people in lives; people who will impact our life, either positively or negatively. Meeting new set of individuals in life is inevitable but what you do with such a meeting is most important. We live in a world where many persons are vulnerable to simple things they could have stood up to; many people meet new friends and forget who they are just for the influence of the new friend they just met. New relationship can either MAKE or MAR you, but the onus lies on you to know what to do with the new relationship you are building. There is a purpose for everyone you meet in life, identify the purpose and maximise it to the fullest. Some people do not add anything positive to their friends, so when you see that the purposes are different, you should know the best thing to do. There are people who have met with their doom in life just because of who they met and this has actually shaped their perspective abou...

LOVE YOURSELF It is hard to find a man who sets out to make others happy without putting himself first. The competitive nature of man dated back to the time of Lucifer as and Angel in heave and which later played out in the lives of Cain and Abel. Yes I love you but do you love yourself? It starts with you and ends with others. What you call yourself determines, what people call you. How You see You determines how people see you. When you think you are not good enough then people sees you as not good enough. Only You Knows You, No one knows you better than Yourself. Always know that you are the light set on the hill which cannot be hidden but the question is; Do you believe in yourself? When your mindset of yourself is right; everything around you becomes right.

Which of these determines success; Who you know or What you know? It has been argued overtime what the determinants of success is based on the premise of "who you know or what you know". We live in a world where everything is intertwined and no one is ever an highland in anything, because we all need one another to get to where we want to get to, however, your expertise also play a serious role in helping you maintain the position you occupy. But let us take a survey here today by answering the question: Which of these determines success; who you know or what you know? Drop your comments and let us discuss.  

BUILDING HIGH SELF ESTEEM Have you ever felt left out when other felt included? Do you always see yourself as a second tier individual who is not good for anything? Don't worry you are not the only one in this, most of us pass through this in our lifetime but there is always a way out of such a cave. Self-Esteem is seen as a subjective perception of an individual, which might either be true or not. We all know that self-esteem sometimes referred to as self-worth or self-respect, is also an important part of success. Too little self-esteem can leave people feeling defeated or depressed. It can also lead people to make bad choices, fall into destructive relationships, or fail to live up to their full potential and can even damage personal relationships. Why Self-Esteem? Self esteem is an important factor which can either make or Mar and individual. It determines your success of failure. Self-esteem can either make you successful in your job or make you fail in academics. It deals...

HARD WORK PAYS It is amazing to see many people pursue and achieve real life success. This starts and ends with hard work, determination, motivation, perseverance, commitment and passion. We find ourselves in a society where shortcut to short term wealth is celebrated and hard work is being reduced to a cliché. Hard work is not limited to your occupation but it is a factor for real life success which is applicable in all areas of human dealings. Where do you stand right now, today? Are you happy with where you are? If not why aren't you? What's holding you back on your best days? The answer is 'Yourself '. Are you confused on the path to follow? Know that the path to real life success is always rough and not always easy but it will always demand something from you. It is easy to leave life to chance; it is easy to procrastinate. I know there are many reasons holding you back from taking that giant stride, but if there is a reason to forge ahead why don't you. Y...

LOVE DILEMMA A relationship is composed of many things: friendship, sexual attraction, intellectual compatibility, and, of course, love. Love is the glue that keeps a relationship strong and solid. Love is a beautiful thing we all wish to experience at a point in our individual lives; some say they cannot miss the vibes that comes with it but some say they have to avoid the stress that comes with being committed to someone, so they decide to stay off the grid of love. Most love stories are always one directional; which is commitment to our partners and sometimes the reverse. The dilemma of love we all face is general, we all get tired at some point in our love voyage and we feel like opting out of the relationship just to feel the cool breeze of freedom (the way people think) but the question I have always asked is this "does love relationship pose as a bondage?" In the  journey of life, the good and the bad are accompanying factors for safe landing. The battles we win da...

FRIENDSHIP Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people. Friendship is a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an association. It is described as a part in the hierarchy of relationship, partners, children and family comes first or it can be likened to an arm of the government. Although there are many forms of friendship, some of which may vary from place to place, certain characteristics are present in many types of such bonds. Such characteristics include affection; kindness, love, virtue, sympathy, empathy, honesty, altruism, loyalty, generosity, forgiveness, mutual understanding and compassion, enjoyment of each other's company, trust, and the ability to be oneself, express one's feelings to others, and make mistakes without fear of judgment from the friend. Friendship is an essential aspect of relationship building skills. I’ve listened to people talk about their close friends, and there are three expectations of a close friend that I hear people d...

 TIME!TIME!!TIME!!! The ever and lasting mineral resources on earth and in heaven is TIME. It comes natural, not pleaded for nor bought in the mall or any named market. Imagine you are to purchase time; at what price would you buy a minute? The ever present and lasting argument we have ever had with time is that "time is never enough". This statement cannot be swept under the carpet, but the main problem is that man has continuously failed to maximise time. A man who always wait for the time will surely miss the time. The right time can always be a MIRAGE, but the right man always cease the wrong time and make it right. Opportunity they say waits for no man but man makes the best out of to the opportunities that comes his way and this comes in form of time. The time you waste today will tell on your tomorrow.people who made the best out of their time are changing makers and record breakers. They are pace setters, they are leaders and people of substance. Waste time no mo...